Ideas for Your Something Old, New, Borrowed and Blue
We’ve likely all heard the rhyme “Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue” when talking about wedding traditions. But where did they rhyme actually originate, and why is it seen as a symbol of good luck? Today we’ll dive into the history and give you some modern ideas to have your own touch of good luck on your wedding day.
History of the Rhyme:
The Old English rhyme originated in the Victorian era. Brides would wear these items to symbolize good luck, and would often source them either the day of or before the wedding. It’s an interesting tradition that isn’t commonly done anymore, but some brides will still include a “something old” or “something borrowed” as a nod to it. In 2011, Kate Middleton wore all of these items when she married into the royal family, and it’s kinda fun to look it up and see what she chose! The rhyme itself is pretty straightforward and easy to understand, but here is a breakdown of what each line means:
“Something old, (symbolizing continuity, celebrating family history)
something new, (optimism for the future)
something borrowed, (borrowed from another happily married couple to pass on their good luck)
something blue, (symbolizing purity and fidelity as a couple)
and a sixpence in her shoe.” (encouraging good fortune together)
So without further adieu, here are some ideas for both you and your partner to partake in for a touch of good luck throughout your day! If you choose to add any touches of good luck, be sure to tell your photographer so they capture all those details.
Something Old
The item that makes the most sense for this would be a family heirloom or something similar to that. It will be used to honor your family history; the past you’ve come from, where you are now, and where you may be in the future. It reminds you of your roots, and to stay close to them.
This could be a brooch or pin, piece of jewelry, veil, headband, handkerchief, cufflinks, tie/bowtie, or even a patch of fabric sewn into the bride’s dress/groom’s suit. You could also use physical items like heirloom glasses or fine china dinnerware, napkins, a cake knife, etc. It could even be as simple as a photo of your grandparents or parents on a table, or a charm on your bridal bouquet. Think of something that would mean the most to you, a way to honor and cherish those passed, or those important to you.
Something New
This one is pretty easy to accomplish, being that you’re most likely wearing new clothes on the day of. Some people like to use something that is new to both of you as a couple, something that marks the start of your marriage and will be kept for years to come.
The main item most people use to signify “something new” are their clothes for the day - the dress, suit, etc. Other ides of new things include shoes, headband, makeup, veil, handkerchief, cufflinks, perfume, tie/bowtie, matching jewelry, or even going so far as to get a matching tattoo! Another simple way to accomplish this is through champagne glasses, a gift for one another in the morning, wedding favors for guests, cake knife/server, etc. Think of something new that you both can enjoy and will enhance your special day.
Something Borrowed
Traditionally these are borrowed from another happily married couple, and would be a great way to honor your parents, grandparents, or close friends. Think of couples in your life that are dear to you and you partner, and are examples of joy and everlasting love.
This one definitely requires a bit of thought and a bit of careful planning do as to be respectful to any borrowed items. These could be similar items to your “something old,” but don’t need to be! You could use a veil, jewelry, pin/brooch, headband, cufflinks or a tie/bowtie from a friend or family member. You could also use their glassware, cake knife, signage (neon signs are very in right now), or even a card box. Not only is this a way to honor loved ones, but it’s also a small way to be environmentally friendly - borrowing instead of buying new is great!
Something Blue
Traditionally this was something the bride wore to symbolize purity and fidelity, but we think it can be worn by both to symbolize your commitment to one another. The color blue itself symbolizes many things including calmness/peace, responsibility, strength and reliability - all things in a marriage
Just as the items listed before, this should be pretty easy to add to your day. Your could wear a blue pin/brooch, jewelry, “getting ready” outfit, cufflinks, get a blue manicure/pedicure, shoes, socks, a handkerchief, escort cards, table numbers, candles, flowers, ribbons on your bouquet, a patch of fabric sewn into your dress/suit, etc. Think of ways to incorporate a small touch of blue to symbolize peace, reliability, and strength together.
At the end of the day, the only good luck charm you need is your partner and the love you share. The day is all about the two of you, so find ways to honor that and cherish one another. And if you end up wanting to partake in this centuries-old tradition, hopefully you find something that fits your vibe as a couple!
Until next time, we’ll be searching for a sixpence to put in our shoes - do they even exist anymore??